Oct. 26, 2011

Started browsing the book, Attached.. it's about relationships.  Questions aren't hard but answering some of them don't fit.  Especially since the one involving the last 20 years is in the twilight zone.  That's okay though, at some point I started crossing back over and see light at the end of the tunnel.  I disagree with this short version of the quiz.

Anxious

You love to be very close to your romantic partners and have the capacity for great intimacy.(Yes) You often fear, however, that your partner does not wish to be as close as you would like him/her to be. Relationships tend to consume a large part of your emotional energy (not so much) You tend to be very sensitive to small fluctuations in your partner’s moods and actions, and although your senses are often accurate, you take your partner’s behaviors overly personally (Yes been known to do that). You experience a lot of negative emotions within the relationship and get easily upset (has more to do with statements made). As a result you tend to act out and say things you later regret (avoidant would be closer). If the other person provides a lot of security and reassurance, you are able to shed much of your preoccupation and feel contented. (agree but not a lot of security as much as just a chance to be me)

Long time to live that way all I have to say about that!  Hopefully environment has changed enough to get past anxious.  I feel that it truly has.  Time.  Product of a new environment, right.  

Trying hard to focus and failing miserably.

Blessings